I have spent many weekends and more sailing, away from my wife and family. There is not a great deal of reason to regret. One can not undo the past. Frankly, I loved the sailing, but it did come at a price. It is something I did which was self centered. It did not include my family.
From time to time I do things with my wife away from the water. There are moments I feel like a duck out of water; but I never regret our sojourns. It has broadened my life.
Today, was one of those moments. A visit to the Sakonnet Gardens. And some idle wandering taking photographs all the time.
Are your comments about your wife a tiny bit ambiguous…perhaps….No ?